Monday, October 4, 2010
Baby Shower Advice
The shower was well attended with nearly 20 ladies. She got alot of nice gifts, always a help with those new Little Ones. At several points of the shower, the hostess asked anyone that wanted to to share some advice with W. She had no takers until nearly the very end. And even at that point, I just couldn't come up with any advice. Really?! I suppose I'm a bit timid in group settings, especially those that include people I don't know, about sharing advice, especially since the jury is still out on a couple of my kids! :) Several spoke about the importance of praying with your children, keeping them on schedules (to which I had to bite my tongue!), consistent discipline, knowing your child, but I suppose I appreciated the lady that said "My advice is to listen to others advice, then go with your own instinct."
Yes, listen to others, but let your heart speak the loudest. I guess that's true of a lot of things in family life. Not just how to feed, discipline and raise your children, but also how to let them go. Some people wonder why I'm not a basket case with my chicks strewn out all over: Chicago, Tulsa, Colcord, Germany, and living with a Muslim family. Sometimes my heart screams at me "THEY ARE TOO FAR AWAY!" That's when I realize my heart is solely consumed with itself. Mostly my heart tells me that they are fine adults, capable of making the best decisions for their lives. So I will continue to listen to others, sometimes I have no choice! :)
I will listen to others, but let my heart speak the loudest.